Just being kind


More than likely, you are naturally adept at one behavior men find most attractive. A comprehensive study of over 10,000 people found that kindness was "universally desired." Just as you are looking for a kindhearted partner, men, too, are looking for someone with a similar disposition. The study further linked kindness to "a cooperative disposition, interest in long-term relationships, ability to form social alliances, and empathy in rearing children." So, it's not hard to see why kindness is attractive. But, could it really be just that simple? It appears so.


"No articles are giving advice on how to be 'nice,' even though we'd all be so much better off simply being kind rather than spending hours in front of the mirror," Ken Page, the author of Deeper Dating, told Shape. Your kindness will likely be evident on a first date simply by being considerate, such as arriving on time and being polite to your restaurant server.

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